
Hi, Markus here. Welcome to a new episode of the Customer-Value-Led-Growth Newsletter.
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You Are Not Alone
There are so many CSMs who are working harder than ever and still wondering why their results don’t reflect it. It’s not because you are careless. It’s not because you aren’t qualified enough.
It’s not because you don’t know how to connect with customers.
It’s because you were taught to believe that if you care more, show up more, and put in more effort, you will create better results.
So you add more meetings, answer more emails, follow up more often, and solve every problem. You stay late and go the extra mile.
And yet, at the end of the week, you are looking back, asking yourself what has actually moved forward with a sobering answer.
There is some point where more effort turns from more commitment into an endless treadmill that comes with exponentially growing costs.
Today’s episode is about why more effort does not necessarily create more impact. What it feels like, what is waiting on the other side, and how to get there.
What It Feels Like When Effort Isn't Creating Impact
You are in Customer Success because you genuinely care. You want your customers to become successful. You built strong customer relationships. You are literally going above and beyond for the customer.
And yet you
Spend hours preparing for a customer meeting that ends at the same point it began
Follow up again and again with a customer who still hasn't made the decision or change they need to make
Answer every question, solve every problem, and somehow end up with even more work
Have customers who love working with you churn anyway because they never achieved the outcome they expected
That is not a list of failures. It is what happens when effort becomes the measure of good Customer Success instead of the change that effort creates.
When putting in more effort has become the answer to every problem. And that makes it highly seductive. You can see it. You can measure it. You can point to it.
You know how many calls you made. How many emails you answered. How many meetings you attended. How many problems you solved.
Impact is different. It’s what changed because you did those things.
“Did the customer get closer to the outcome they care about?” is a much harder question to answer. So you default to what you can control and do more.
And when the results still aren't there, they do even more. That is where the “death cycle” starts.
What It Is Costing You
The problem with making more effort the answer is that there is no natural point at which you have done enough. And it comes at incredibly high costs.
Mental Health
There’s the saying that you have to burn for something to actually burn out. It could not be more true. But you are not burning out because of the effort.
It happens when you realize how much you have given and how (relatively) little you got in return. I know what I’m talking about from personal experience.
I put it first because burning out has the highest costs of all. Protecting your mental health at all costs is priceless.
Self Doubt
Something else happens when you keep working harder without seeing better results. You start questioning yourself and second-guessing your decisions.
“Is what I am doing actually working? Am I having the right conversations? Am I prioritizing the right things? What am I missing?”
Customer Success requires change. Change requires influence. Influence requires confidence. The CSM who is in constant self-doubt loses the ability to influence change.
Opportunity costs
There is another cost that is easy to miss. Every hour you spend doing more on one end is an hour you can’t spend on the other.
The extra customer meeting takes the place of figuring out why the customer is stuck.
The extra follow-up takes the place of building a plan that would prevent the same problem from happening again.
The time you spend solving another customer problem takes the place of helping the customer build the capability to solve it themselves.
And eventually, you become good at handling more and more work without ever creating more impact.
What the Other Side Looks Like
Here is what I want you to hold onto: You do not have to stop working hard. You have to make your effort count.
The shift happens when you stop defining good work by how much you do and start defining it by what your work changes. That sounds simple. It is not.
But when it happens, everything changes. Not gradually but suddenly. Like your vision has been blurred all the time, and now you can finally see where your effort needs to go.
Here is what the other side actually looks like:
You are in control
Before: You open the inbox. Seventeen unread Emails. Complaints, requests, repetitive questions, and an escalation from Friday. The week has already started without you.
After: You know which customers need attention before the inbox tells you.
You know what each important customer is trying to achieve. You know where they are today. You know what is getting in the way. And you know the next change you need to help create.
The week has a shape before it starts. There’s still urgent work to do because no system is perfect. But it no longer dictates your entire week.
Meaningful conversations
Before: “Hi Sarah, just checking in to see how things are going.”
After: “Sarah, here is where you are against the outcome we agreed on. This is what has changed, this is where the gap remains, and this is what I think we need to do next.”
The conversation is no longer about everything that happened since the last meeting. It is about progress. And the new quality changes how you are perceived by your customers entirely.
Results worth the effort
When you know what you are trying to change, every hour of work has somewhere to go.
You are not measuring your week by how many meetings you had, how many emails you answered, or how many fires you put out. You can point to what moved.
A customer reached a milestone that was holding back adoption.
A renewal moved forward because the value was clear.
An expansion happened because the customer had a bigger problem you could help solve.
A risk disappeared because you addressed the issue before it became a crisis.
The work still takes effort.
But at the end of the week, you don't just have a longer to-do list.
You have results to show for the work you did.
What Creates the Transition
This does not happen through a productivity hack. You can reorganize your calendar, optimize your inbox, learn another time-management technique, or read every Customer Success newsletter ever written (including this one).
And still walk into Monday morning doing exactly what you did before. The transition happens when three things change.
1. Clarity on what needs to happen
I’m not talking about your task list. I’m talking about the outcome.
What is the customer actually trying to achieve?
Where are they today?
What is preventing them from getting there?
What needs to change?
When you have that clarity, your work becomes intentional. Every action can now be measured against a simple question:
“Will this help move the customer closer to the outcome they are trying to achieve?”
If the answer is yes, do it. If the answer is no, question it. Not every useful thing you could do deserves your time. Especially when customers can do it themselves.
2. The skills to create the change
Knowing what needs to change is not enough. You need to know how to create that change. Most CSMs were never deliberately trained for this.
They were trained to manage relationships, respond to escalations, present usage data, and stay close to their customers.
But creating outcomes requires something different.
You need to be able to discover what really matters to the customer, build a path toward the desired outcome, enable customers to make the necessary changes, measure progress, and demonstrate the value being created.
These are learnable skills, but they do not appear automatically because you have spent another year in Customer Success.
3. The system to make it repeatable
Clarity and skills without a system still leave you relying on individual judgment. You know what the right moves are, but only when you remember to apply them.
A system makes the right work repeatable. It gives you a consistent way to understand the customer, define the outcome, plan the journey, create change, measure progress, and demonstrate value.
It stops you from having to reinvent your approach for every customer. And most importantly, it gives your effort somewhere to go. Because the goal isn't to eliminate effort.
It is to create a clear line between:
What the customer needs to achieve → what needs to change → what you need to do → what changed → what that change is worth.
That is how effort becomes impact.
Final Thoughts
The CSMs who consistently create impact are not necessarily more talented than you.
They are not working half as hard.
They have simply stopped believing that more effort will eventually produce better results.
They stopped measuring their impact by how busy they were.
They stopped responding to every problem by doing more.
And they started being deliberate about where their effort goes.
The clarity. The skills. The system.
One decision at a time.
The CS profession will keep celebrating CSM effort.
You do not have to stop going the extra mile.
You just need to make sure that it is moving the customer forward.
Start your transition 👇
